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要学会正确的看待孤独

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发表于 2009-4-17 11:13 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
After the vicissitudes of wind and rain to see the brand, how can we not lament the merciless years, when the number of years the flow of Things Past, in the face of all who love deeply, I have a more profound understanding and feeling. Unknowingly through the lives of those who have had the wind, the rain had soul fell silent, like the lens in a beautiful picture, in silence in front of a clear and fuzzy away from ... ...
     Who can accompany me, I walked with North Korea and every evening? In fact, drifting with my life accompanied by a process of each, and only myself. One person alone, quiet and beautiful, loneliness is a dense bamboo flute, quietly flowing melody of the sad, at this time is the most real I myself, not worry about the complexity of human relationships, need not to distant future, the better drifting dream tired. Who cares how good the outside world, in my own kingdom easily enjoy unfettered joy. Or laughter, which is sweet laughter, or tears, this is pure tears.
     I know I can not get out of this lonely because I like the kind of despair of the beautiful, like a day in the bustle of the city's coat stripped impetuous, purdah in the quiet possession of the loneliness a little bit of their own. Let the soul and emotion in a time when the homeless are not eye-catching in this area rest stop.
     Or a cup of coffee, a good book, Stars of the window, and I accompanied one of the meniscus, to take me into the dream world ... ...
     Or continuous rain, the umbrellas up a transparent, thin high-heeled shoes to learn the patter of rain, rain溶进figure alone embrace, their feelings about the endless.
     A long time to endure the loneliness, I know that I should cherish it properly, if the section is destined to be alone, they should enjoy it. Loneliness is associated with themselves, will be able to endure the loneliness of the earth in the confusion has a quiet, solitary life is a unique experience, a spirit of communication can not be created out of an isolated状态. I never thought of how lonely the poor, it is a sentiment of life. When I accepted the loneliness, but also learned to enjoy solitude. A person's world, such as a cup of tea "instead of Shibuya light, fresh-smelling, but not" love the world we should cherish each and every life process, the brilliant and lonely, laughter and tears, excitement and quiet ... ...
     Life regardless of how heavy, how sad and dreary life, messy thoughts flying tonight to open a cavity was thinking, endless grief and hi to gradually ease the heavy knot, the load gradually broken heart. I heaved a sigh of relief, fear of what will be in front of the wind and rain, feeling like a flying kite, the free float in the sky fantasy.
     Loneliness is a real beauty, I enjoy the solitude of an otherwise happy. 看风雨过后沧桑的烙印,怎能不感叹岁月无情,当多少岁月似水流过,面对曾经深深热爱的一切,我有了一种更为深刻的理解和情怀。生命在不知不觉中走过,那些曾经有过的风、有过的雨静静落在心灵深处,像是镜头中一副绝美的画面,默默地在眼前清晰而来又模糊而去……
    谁能与我相伴,伴我走过每一个朝与夕?其实与我相伴漂流生命中每一个过程的,只有我自己。一人独处,寂静而美丽,孤独是一支空灵的竹箫,悄悄流淌着伤感的曲调,这时的我是最真实的自己,不会因复杂的人际关系而烦恼,不必为遥远的将来的美好梦想而漂泊劳累。管它外面的世界如何精彩,在我自己的王国里独享无拘无束的轻松快乐。抑或是欢笑,这笑是甜的,抑或是流泪,这泪是纯的。
    我知道我走不出这份孤独,因为我喜欢那种绝望的凄美,喜欢在喧闹了一天的都市中剥去浮躁的外衣,在寂静的深闺之处拥有一点点自己的寂寞。让灵魂和情感在无家可归的时候在这块不惹眼的地方驻足休息。
    或是一杯咖啡,一本好书,洒满星光的窗边,与我相伴的一轮弯月,带我走进那个梦中的世界……
    或是绵绵细雨中,撑起一把透明雨伞,细细的高跟鞋啪嗒啪嗒地汲着雨水,孤单的身影溶进雨的怀抱,彼此诉说着不尽的情怀。
    长久地忍受着这份孤独,我知道,我应该好好的珍惜它,如果注定这段路要孤单,就应该好好享受它。孤独就是与自己为伴,耐得住这份寂寞才会在这个纷乱的尘世中拥有一份宁静,孤独是独特的人生体验,一种在精神上无法与人沟通而产生的一种孤立无缘的状态。我从不觉得孤独有多么可怜,它是人生的另一种感悟。当我接受了孤独,也学会了享受孤独。一个人的世界如一杯清茶“淡而不涩,清香但不扑鼻”,爱这个世界就要好好珍惜生命中的每一个过程,辉煌与落寞、欢笑与眼泪、热闹与冷清……
    不管生活多么沉重,多少悲凉沧桑,今夜放飞凌乱的思绪,打开一腔的心思,无尽的悲与喜跃然纸上,把郁结的沉重渐渐舒解,把心头的负荷渐渐打碎。我便如释重负,怎还会惧怕前方的风雨,心情犹如一只放飞的风筝,自由飘荡在幻想的天空。
    孤独是一种真实的美丽,我在孤独中享受着一种别样的快乐。
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